Thomas Lamar Defur, 70, of Stoystown died June 21, 2019 at home. Born June 30, 1948 in Chattanooga, Tennessee, son of the late Bill and Ethel (Stapleton) Defur. Survived by soul mate of 30 years Linda Segrest. Also survived by brothers: James, Michael, and Billy; sisters: Wanda, Cathy, Joann and Nancy, all of Tennessee; daughter: Dawn Marie Defur, Hot Springs, AR; children: Mylinda Budzina, Stanley Charlton Jr., Hiedi Saunders, Matthew Charlton and Samuel Segrest; grandson: Stanley Charlton III; granddaughters: Amanda Budzina, Jessica Wheeler and Jade Finch. Also survived by special son-in-law: Stephen Budzina and mother-in-law: Violet Wilt. He was a Vietnam War Army Veteran and retired from Eagle Concrete. Member of: Stoystown American Legion and Jenner Rod and Gun Club. There will be a private viewing at the convenience of the family. Arrangements entrusted to Deaner Funeral Home, Stoystown. DeanerFuneralsAndCremations.com